My take on things

Sunday, September 9, 2012

What I've learned from having a 1 Year old Daughter & a Baby in my Tummy

Since I've been on maternity leave from the 1st week of August pa lang kahit ang due date ko is Sept. 14 pa, eto ang mga natutunan ko. Let me enumerate and elaborate:

1.   I need to have more Calcium

While it’s true that pregnant women need to have added amount of calcium intake for them and the child inside their womb, I need it more, I say, because my soon-to-be toddler is so active and hindi maiwasan na kargahin ko sya. Yes, yes, yes, I’ve heard a lot of reminders already telling me na wag magbuhat ng mabigat and most especially wag na buhatin si Eliza para hindi ma-stress ang baby ko sa loob but there are times that it’s really inevitable not to carry or even lift her.

2.   Extra patience comes in handy

I gotta be patient with my little explorer, my tiny tot. Yet some women would say na during their pregnancy, their hormones go berserk and they become temperamental. Thank God that doesn't happen to me. I may have been a little less patient when I’m stressed sa work but now since naka-mat leave ako, I got all the free time to play and care for my babies.

3.   Laughing and creating happy bonding moments are easier

I know that the baby inside in my womb can hear and feel the laughter, the games, the singing, the dancing and listening to music activities we are doing ng ate nya. So kampante ako na pati sya mahahawa sa happy aura namin and she’s able to interact too.

4.   Physical Strength is important

I suffered badly from the accident. Ang hirap umupo, tumayo, magbend to get something, and even humiga at matulog. Pero mas nahirapan ako to breathe, umiyak, umubo, mag-sneeze, at even to laugh. Ang sakit-sakit sa dibdib, physically and metaphorically. That made me worried kasi naisip ko, paano ko aalagaan ang mga anak ko. But God healed me and He did it just in time. Laughing wand doing some activities with Eliza gradually exercised my chest and now I’m totally well. Praise God for using my daughter as His instrument to help me recover.

Every now and then I pick up toys, clothes, food or mga pamunas na tinatapon ni bulilit sa floor and even diapers with wiwi na, kasi sometimes pag-alanganin na itapon sa trash bin sa likod, then I just slip it under the bed, hehehe. Pati na rin kapag naglilikot si Eliza sa bed kasi she loves going sa edge ng bed so ako yung mega harang. She runs around the bed, flips and turns na ang bilis-bilis so nakakapraning kung hindi ko sya maabot.  So that means I bend and reach a lot. 

5.   In the Pink of health

This is in connection to numbers 1 and 4. Women who are in this type of situation should be eating healthy foods and shouldn’t be stressed at all! Good vibes lang dapat lagi. A little exercise would help too lalo na ang mga stretchings and yogas for pregnant women nearing labor.

6.   Irish Twins

Haha, added info lang ito. Thanks to sis Ai who told me about this. Ang tawag pala sa dalawang bata na isang taon lang ang pagitan is “Irish Twins.” Here’s what I’ve read about from http://multiples.about.com/od/glossary/g/irishtwins.htm by Pamela Prindle Fierro, About.com Guide

Definition: The term is used to describe two children born to the same mother in the same calendar year or within twelve months of each other. The phrase originated as a derogatory term associated with Irish immigration to the United States and England in the 1800's. The implication was that large groups of close-in-age siblings were the result of uneducated, poor Irish Catholic families' lack of birth control as well as self-control.
In modern use, the term is not intended as an insult, but rather a description of siblings born close together. Irish twins are not actually twins and they are not the same as having twins, which are defined as two siblings born from the same gestation.

Actually there are a lot of insights everyday but I guess this sums it all.

Til next time!

Simply Blessed: Eliza Yohan Turns One!


Yey! The long wait is finally over! It's our baby's first birthday!!!

Buti na lang at Friday pa lang e nakauwi na dito sa Dipolog si Papa Ace. He came from Dumaguete bringing the cake he personally handpicked and "edited" kumbaga kasi sabi nya hindi yun yung original na look. He bought the toys as cake toppers at the mall and asked Fernandez Cakes to remove the background na carton kasi hindi nya raw feel. And lo-and-behold, when he got the cake, he was so surprised daw with the size kasi ang laki pala! In fairness, Fernandez Cakes made and excellent job! May blooper nga lang - hindi nasira yung cake when he bought it here, but when Ace and his papa arranged the cake sa table, accidentally natamaan ang icing with the lettering na "Yohan" so ayun, tinabunan na lang namin ng candy flowers. Hihihi.

We didn’t plan for a big celebration. In fact, hindi na kami nagplano at all kasi nga ang inisip namin, kami-kami na lang ang magcelebrate since the baby usually doesn’t enjoy much kapag maraming tao and hindi pa naman nya ma-appreciate, plus ang lalayo ng mga taong iinvite namin. But when my in-laws saw the cake, ayun, na-pressure ata at instead na kaunti lang ang ihahanda, nagulat na lang kami ni Ace kasi nag-line up na sila ng menu! Waaaa! So naggrocery, at naghanap ng lilitsunin! Ewan ko ba bakit naturingang event planner e hindi naman ako nakakapag-plano pa ng maayos sa sarili kong mga events! Kaloka! O well, as of now kasi limited pa ang resources plus kabuwanan ko rin kasi.

On the day of Eliza’s Birthday, ang aga namin nagising para maghanda. Sayang nga kasi walang behind the scene photos kasi ang saya tingnan, busy kami lahat. Pati si Eliza nakibusy na rin. Though she wasn’t in her usual likot mode, hindi naman sya natulog. Siguro naaliw syang tingnan kami na aligaga sa pagpeprepare for her. She ended up sitting on her high chair, watching me while I make the macaroni salad. I can see she was fascinated by what I was doing kasi she was blabbering, smiling a lot, and looking intensely at my hands and at the food i was preparing. How I wish I could’ve had a snapshot of it. Pero di bale na, that moment will forever be etched in my heart.

Her Papa Ace naman was the master chef or should I say, “Hot Guy Who Cooks”. Sa kanya lahat ng main dish! Well aside from the once cooked by Mama and Papa. Grabe, we were multi-tasking na. Then we had to prepare the balloons pa, buti na lang we had all that we needed, thanks to our other business which is balloon-making. Heheheh!

Supposedly, since Tinkerbelle and fairy friends na ang nasa cake, it follows na yun na rin ang theme, right? Wrong! Kasi what Ace got as a backdrop design was Winnie the Pooh and friends since wala raw syang nakita na Tinkerbell! Hahahahaha! Impromptu kasi. Hindi na kasi ako nagpagawa ng tarp because of the thought na kami-kami lang naman.

Then dumating na ang mga kapitbahay and some other guests who were clueless of what the occasion was. They’ve just invited a few kasi mahirap na, baka magasama ng isang barangay at simpleng handa lang meron kami.

My family on the other hand, couldn't attend because my mom’s still recuperating but they kept on calling and texting, asking what's going on na and how Eliza was.

It was a circus, the preparation I mean. We never expected it to turn out this way. Ako na rin ang official photographer kaya kaunti lang ang photos. Yet, I’m happy kasi natupad rin ang wish ko na magkapicture kaming tatlo. Thank God for the tri-pod we bought. ;)

I can say na nakakapagod. Kasi kami na ang nagprepare and then of course the after care. But for me, it was also fun and yun yung masasabi mong “Labor of Love” talaga kasi hindi kami nag-pacater. Lahat kami ang nagluto, except for the Lechon, which was very tasty by the way.

Maraming salamat sa lahat ng bumati and nagsend ng wishes nila for our baby. Also to those who came and celebrated with us. Thank you to Eliza’s Ninang Analyn for the dress Eliza wore on that day. Thank you to my in-laws too for their undying support and love to our Eliza Yohan. To my hubby Ace who has made tremendous efforts sa cake pa lang and sa paghahanda.

None of this will be possible without the guidance from our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ. Thank you so much for giving us the physical strength and the will para kayanin all that has transpired that day. Glory and praise to You!

As for Eliza, well, as expected, she was surprised and she cried kasi nagulat sya paglabas nya ng room ang dami nang tao and ang ingay. Kaya ayun, saglit lang kami sa dining area and went back to the room where she felt more comfortable and relaxed. Dun na lang kami nag-pictorial. When the guests left, saka na sya naging cheerful ulit. Okay lang yan anak, marami ka pang birthdays na dadating so tsaka na ang photo ops with other people. ;)

Hayaan mo, next time, may theme na tayo and may party na, that’s a promise! Mommy and Papa will work hard for that to happen. Or if wala, ang alternative is Disneyland, ayos ba yun sa’yo anak? Before your 2nd birthday, I’m gonna ask you that and I know by then you’ll be able to tell me what your answer is. :D